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How friend groups handle one person changing the dynamic

Our friend group has been close for over a decade but one person in it has become increasingly difficult to be around - they dominate every conversation and seem unable to hear feedback - and the rest of us have started planning things without including them. We all feel terrible about it but nobody knows how to address it directly without potentially exploding everything.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A community is slowly fracturing around one person's behavior, choosing exclusion over confrontation because they don't know how to maintain both honesty and connection.

Ideas that help explain it
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