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How friend groups navigate conflict between members

Our friend group has been dealing with the fact that one person in our circle did something that really hurt another person in the group, and now we're all walking on eggshells not knowing whose side to take or if there even should be sides. We want to stay friends with everyone but the tension is making every hangout feel fake.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

When people you love hurt each other, trying to stay neutral can become its own form of betrayal.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Buddhist merit and the ripple of good action?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.