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When friend groups outgrow their old patterns

Our friend group has been doing the same things for years and some of us are starting to feel like we've outgrown it but nobody wants to be the one to say it out loud. We keep planning the same weekend trips and having the same conversations and I can feel us all getting a little bored but also scared to change anything.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A group is clinging to familiar rituals while quietly longing for something more authentic.

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