Periagoge
Scenario

When friend groups disagree about changing their regular spot

Our friend group has been meeting at this coffee shop every Sunday for three years but half of us want to find somewhere new because it's gotten too crowded and expensive, and the other half feel like we're abandoning something important. The arguments about where to meet have started to feel like arguments about who we are.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

How the spaces we choose become part of our identity, and why practical decisions can feel like betrayals.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Third places — bars libraries parks barbershops?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.