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Scenario

When friend groups struggle with one person's destructive behavior

Our friend group has been tight for over a decade but one person's drinking has gotten worse and we're all walking on eggshells — some of us think we should say something and others think it's not our place. The tension is affecting all our gatherings.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Loyalty can become complicity when love means different things to different people and no one knows how to care without enabling.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

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Peri

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