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How to address toxic behavior in long-term friend groups

Our friend group has been tight since college but one person in our circle has become increasingly difficult to be around — they dominate conversations, dismiss others, make everything about them — and the rest of us have started planning things without them, which feels terrible but also necessary.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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A beloved community is quietly fracturing because no one knows how to confront behavior that's destroying the group dynamic.

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