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How friend groups navigate sobriety and changing social dynamics

Our friend group has been together for over a decade but ever since Sarah got sober two years ago, our gatherings feel awkward and we all pretend everything is the same when it's clearly not. We love her and want to include her but none of us know how to hang out together anymore without it feeling forced.

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