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Scenario

How friend groups navigate sobriety and changing social dynamics

Our friend group has been together for over a decade but ever since Sarah got sober two years ago, our gatherings feel awkward and we all pretend everything is the same when it's clearly not. We love her and want to include her but none of us know how to hang out together anymore without it feeling forced.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A group that defined itself through shared rituals is learning that love requires reimagining how they connect when those rituals no longer serve everyone.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Gender and parenting — who does what and why?”

Peri

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