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Scenario

How to navigate money differences in long-term friendships

Our friend group has this unspoken rule that we don't talk about money even though it's clearly affecting everything — who can afford which restaurants, whether someone can join the weekend trips, why certain people always end up paying for others. We're all in such different financial situations now but we keep pretending we're still broke college students together.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A group is trying to maintain equality and connection across growing inequality, using silence as a strategy that's becoming more costly than honest conversation.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Discipline across traditions?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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