Our neighborhood group started a mutual aid network during the pandemic and it was beautiful but now some people do all the work while others just take and we're all too conflict-avoidant to address it directly. The resentment is starting to poison something that used to feel sacred.
More people experience this than they realize.
A group built on generosity is discovering that good intentions aren't enough to navigate fairness.
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If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.