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How families navigate adult children moving back home

Our son moved back home after losing his job and my wife and I keep having the same fight about house rules and expectations — she thinks we should treat him like an adult roommate and I keep slipping back into parent mode and now he's caught in the middle. We all live here but nobody knows what we're doing and it's been four months.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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A family is struggling to renegotiate relationships and boundaries when independence gets complicated and everyone has to live together again.

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