We've been married five years and still keep our finances mostly separate because of child support and different spending priorities for our kids, but now we want to buy a house together and it's forcing us to confront how separate we've actually stayed.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people must choose between the safety of parallel lives and the vulnerability required for genuine unity.
“Where Are You with Stepparenting and blended family dynamics?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.