I adopted my son from foster care when he was six and now at fifteen he wants to find his birth parents and I am terrified he will love them more than me even though I know he has the right to know where he came from.
More people experience this than they realize.
Secure love means supporting your child's need for answers that might diminish your importance in their story.
“Where Are You with Cultural expectations vs. personal values in parenting?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.