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When partners have different perceptions of household equity

I am exhausted from working full time and doing 90% of the mental load at home while my husband genuinely believes we split things equally.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Invisible emotional and organizational labor remains unrecognized, creating resentment and relationship strain.

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