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Scenario

When partners have different perceptions of household equity

I am exhausted from working full time and doing 90% of the mental load at home while my husband genuinely believes we split things equally.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Invisible emotional and organizational labor remains unrecognized, creating resentment and relationship strain.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Gender and parenting — who does what and why?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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