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When personal choices complicate traditional family celebrations

I am pregnant at sixteen and my family wants to do traditional ceremonies to welcome the baby but I feel like I have brought shame and do not deserve the honor.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Young mothers may feel unworthy of cultural celebration when their circumstances don't match community ideals.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Indigenous coming-of-age traditions?”

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