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Scenario

When keeping up appearances threatens your financial security

I borrowed against my 401k to pay for my son's wedding because I could not bear the shame of him having a smaller celebration than his friends, and now I am terrified about my own future.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The desire to protect children from social humiliation drives parents toward financially destructive decisions that compound long-term vulnerability.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Money and parenting — financial pressure and class?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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