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Scenario

When honoring a deceased child divides your living family

I built a shrine for my son who died in Afghanistan but my wife says it's keeping us stuck in grief and my other kids avoid the room where I put it.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Mourning practices that comfort one family member can become sources of pain for others.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Ancestor veneration across traditions?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.