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When coming out creates invisible distance

I came out as trans and half my friend group says they support me but they never invite me anywhere anymore and I do not know if I lost them or if they lost me.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Authentic self-revelation can create subtle but profound shifts in belonging.

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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Leaving a community?”

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