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When your teen throws your past mistakes in your face

I caught my son smoking weed in his room and when I confronted him he said at least he is not drinking and driving like I did at his age and I had no response.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A parent's authority crumbles when their child uses their own adolescent failures to justify current poor choices.

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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Adolescence and the parent-teen relationship?”

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