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How to cope when someone squanders the sacrifice you made for them

I donated a kidney to my brother three years ago and he's back to drinking heavily and I feel like he's wasting the gift I gave him.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The recipient's choices after an irreversible gift create complex feelings of ownership and regret.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Public life and legacy management?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.