I earn more than my husband but still do most of the housework because he says he does not see mess the way I do.
More people experience this than they realize.
Appeals to different standards often disguise resistance to taking equal responsibility for shared domestic spaces.
“Where Are You with Gender and parenting — who does what and why?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.