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Why personal forgiveness can feel socially irresponsible

I forgave my ex-friend who spread rumors about me at work because holding anger felt poisonous, but now she's doing the same thing to someone else and I wonder if my forgiveness was actually cowardice.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Choosing inner peace through forgiveness can conflict with the responsibility to protect others from continued harmful behavior.

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