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Scenario

When your partner's hidden loyalties make you question your place in the relationship

I found out my husband has been sending money to his ex-wife's family for years without telling me and now I feel like I don't know who I married or if I belong in this marriage at all.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The discovery of concealed allegiances forces a reckoning with whether intimacy can exist alongside fundamental unknowing.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with What belonging is — a philosophical definition?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.