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When your child realizes your family has less money than their friends

I found out my son's private school friends are going on a $15,000 spring break trip and he asked if we can go too and I had to explain we cannot afford it and I saw something die in his eyes.

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A parent confronts the moment when economic inequality becomes visible to their child, threatening both the child's sense of belonging and the parent's sense of adequacy.

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“Where Are You with Money and parenting — financial pressure and class?”

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