I gave a huge donation in my late husband's memory but the organization used it for things he would have hated and I feel like I dishonored him.
More people experience this than they realize.
Grief can cloud our judgment about charitable gifts meant to honor the dead and create additional sorrow when institutions misuse our attempts at meaningful tribute.
“Where Are You with Philanthropy — giving as legacy strategy?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.