I gave my son money for rent again last month even though he's thirty-five and has a job, and I tell myself it's love but I think I'm actually afraid of what kind of mother I'd be if I let him struggle.
More people experience this than they realize.
Continuing to rescue adult children can reveal more about the parent's need to feel useful and loving than about the child's actual needs.
“Where Are You with Buddhist merit and the ripple of good action?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.