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Scenario

How losing custody makes you question your fundamental worth

I gave up custody of my kids to my ex because I was not stable enough and now I do not know what kind of mother or person I am supposed to be.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The loss of primary parental role, especially when voluntary, can shatter core beliefs about identity and worthiness as both parent and person.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Parenting and identity — who are you beyond parent??”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.