I had an affair and ended it and told my wife and she forgave me but I cannot forgive myself and it is ruining everything anyway.
More people experience this than they realize.
Self-punishment can become its own betrayal, preventing the very healing that genuine remorse should enable.
“Where Are You with Family therapy and systems thinking?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.