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Scenario

When early parenthood creates lifelong regret and gratitude

I had my son at seventeen and now he is fifteen and sometimes I look at him and realize I never got to be young and I feel guilty for resenting a choice that gave me the person I love most.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The simultaneous presence of sacrifice and gift in a single decision creates moral complexity that defies resolution.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The philosophy of parenthood — why and what for?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.