I had twins and one died at birth and the other lived, and I do not know how to grieve one child while celebrating the other.
More people experience this than they realize.
Simultaneous joy and devastation create an impossible emotional landscape where celebration feels like betrayal and mourning feels like ingratitude.
“Where Are You with Grief of a child — the unnatural loss?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.