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Scenario

When friends only reach out during their crises

I have a friend who only contacts me when she's in crisis and disappears when things are going well and I feel like an emotional emergency contact.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Being valued only for our capacity to help in disasters reveals the absence of genuine interest in our full humanity.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Deep friendship — what it takes?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.