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When friendship becomes one-sided

I have a friend who only reaches out when she needs something and I keep making excuses for her because I remember how close we used to be but I am starting to feel used.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Your investment in who she used to be is preventing you from responding to who she is now.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Maintaining friendships across distance and time?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.