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Scenario

When anonymous charity gets discovered and changes relationships

I have been anonymously paying for groceries for elderly people in my neighborhood but one of them figured out it was me and now they feel indebted and it changed everything.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The exposure of secret generosity transforms both giver and receiver in ways that complicate the original pure intention.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Islamic sadaqah jariyah — the ongoing gift?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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