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When being someone's parent becomes your only identity

I have been divorced for three years and I still introduce myself as my kids' mom instead of using my own name.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Over-identification with the parental role can eclipse the individual self, making it difficult to exist as a person rather than just a function.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Parenting and identity — who are you beyond parent??”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.