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Scenario

When a friend becomes emotionally draining

I have been friends with Katie for ten years but lately every conversation turns into her complaining about the same problems and I love her but I am starting to dread her calls.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Your loyalty is being tested by the repetitive weight of her unprocessed pain.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Maintaining friendships across distance and time?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.