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Scenario

When long-term family charity recipients aren't actually needy

I have been giving money to my cousin's family for years thinking they were struggling but I just found out they spend more on vacations than I make in a year.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Discovering that charitable assumptions were wrong creates betrayal and confusion about both family dynamics and giving wisdom.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Islamic sadaqah jariyah — the ongoing gift?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.