I have been invited to my college friend's wedding but I have not spoken to her in two years and I do not know if I should go or if showing up would be weird for everyone involved.
More people experience this than they realize.
The invitation is forcing you to confront the gap between the relationship she remembers and the one that actually exists.
“Where Are You with Maintaining friendships across distance and time?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.