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When new relationships threaten chosen family bonds

I have been like a mother to my best friend's children for fifteen years but now that she is remarrying her new husband wants boundaries and I feel like I am losing my chosen family.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The bonds of chosen kinship face challenges when official family structures change and new authorities emerge.

Ideas that help explain it
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