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When long-term marriage feels more like habit than love

I have been married for twenty years and I am not sure I am in love anymore and I do not know if that matters or if I should try to fix it.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Long marriages must weather the natural evolution of feeling while distinguishing between temporary disconnection and fundamental incompatibility.

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