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When grandchildren start calling grandparents mom and dad

I have been raising my grandson for seven years and he calls me mom now and it breaks my heart because I love it and hate it at the same time.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Role confusion reflects both successful bonding and the painful absence of biological parents in ways that feel simultaneously healing and tragic.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grandparents raising grandchildren?”

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