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When your co-parent monitors your personal life through your children

I have been single for two years since our divorce and my ex keeps asking our kids about my dating life and who comes to the house.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Using children as informants violates both the privacy of the other parent and the emotional safety of the child caught in the middle.

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“Where Are You with Co-parenting after separation?”

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