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Scenario

When your co-parent monitors your personal life through your children

I have been single for two years since our divorce and my ex keeps asking our kids about my dating life and who comes to the house.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Using children as informants violates both the privacy of the other parent and the emotional safety of the child caught in the middle.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Co-parenting after separation?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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