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When Educational Control Makes Children Question If They Are Loved for Themselves

I homeschool my kids to control their education but my twelve-year-old asked me yesterday if I even like her or if I just like her grades.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Your intense focus on academic outcomes has left your child wondering whether your love is conditional on their performance.

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