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Scenario

When Educational Control Makes Children Question If They Are Loved for Themselves

I homeschool my kids to control their education but my twelve-year-old asked me yesterday if I even like her or if I just like her grades.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Your intense focus on academic outcomes has left your child wondering whether your love is conditional on their performance.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Tiger parenting — East Asian model examined?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.