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How to stop financially rescuing your adult children

I keep giving my adult children money when they ask and my husband says I am spoiling them but I cannot bear to see them struggle the way we did.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Love disguised as rescue often robs the beloved of the very struggles that forge strength and self-respect.

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