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Why couples avoid the real conflict underneath

I keep having the same fight with my partner about money and we both know it is not really about money but neither of us will say what it is actually about.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Surface disagreements often protect both people from confronting deeper incompatibilities.

Worth thinking about

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