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Scenario

When fatherhood makes you mourn your former self

I love being a father but I miss the version of myself that stayed out late and took risks and felt alive.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The responsibilities of parenthood can feel like a death of the spontaneous, adventurous parts of identity that once defined you.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Parenting and identity — who are you beyond parent??”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.