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When parenthood triggers grief for your previous identity

I love my children but sometimes I miss my old life so much it physically hurts and I feel guilty for not being grateful enough.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The transformation required by parenthood can create legitimate mourning for abandoned possibilities while coexisting with genuine love.

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“Where Are You with The philosophy of parenthood — why and what for?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.