I made my daughter practice piano four hours a day for twelve years and now she's a concert pianist but she told me last week that music feels like prison to her and I don't know what I've done.
More people experience this than they realize.
You have successfully created excellence in a person who can no longer access their own relationship to that excellence.
“Where Are You with Tiger parenting — East Asian model examined?”
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