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Scenario

How to honor ancestors who disapproved of your life choices

I married outside my culture and my Korean grandmother died thinking I was selfish for not giving her great-grandchildren who would look like family and I still feel guilty five years later.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Living authentically sometimes means disappointing the dead whose opinions still matter to you.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Ancestor veneration across traditions?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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