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Why making deep friendships as an adult feels impossibly hard

I moved to this city five years ago for work and I still feel like everyone else has their college friends or childhood people and I am starting from scratch at 35.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Adult friendship formation lacks the natural containers and shared vulnerability that create bonds in youth, requiring intentional effort most people do not know how to make.

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