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Scenario

Why avoiding expectations can lead to dysfunction

I never made my kids clean their rooms because I wanted them to develop their own standards, but now my 16-year-old's room smells like garbage and I'm embarrassed to have people over.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Children often need external structure to develop internal organization and self-respect.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Permissive parenting and its outcomes?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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