I pushed my son so hard to get into Harvard that when he finally got in, he told me he hates math and wants to drop out to become a social worker and I don't know if I destroyed the thing I was trying to build.
More people experience this than they realize.
The very success you demanded has become the symbol of everything your child wants to escape from.
“Where Are You with Tiger parenting — East Asian model examined?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.